tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post6918320269235639340..comments2024-02-15T04:21:30.013-06:00Comments on Everyone thinks I can fix it: Cheesecake and diapers and helicoptersJamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18085622205448586156noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-76717854651042281442008-09-16T16:52:00.000-05:002008-09-16T16:52:00.000-05:00hope your doing o.k. today jamie, and your mom is ...hope your doing o.k. today jamie, and your mom is feeling better...desert dirt divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04911578434974184759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-64492266575621699152008-09-16T11:59:00.000-05:002008-09-16T11:59:00.000-05:00Hello love- I hope Mom's feeling a bit better toda...Hello love- I hope Mom's feeling a bit better today. I worry about you! Please know your in my thoughts.Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08680462833188999331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-3959998089622929642008-09-16T08:07:00.000-05:002008-09-16T08:07:00.000-05:00What a roller coaster ride. You must be exhausted....What a roller coaster ride. You must be exhausted. <BR/><BR/>I'm keeping good thoughts that your Mom will get strong enough to go home. Thank goodness for family who will come and sleep on your floor and help keep your spirits up through difficult times. I would worry much more about how you are doing if I didn't know your family was right there with you. <BR/>Consider yourself hugged, my friend.achttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06098838419266801712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-6060992564172656262008-09-16T06:54:00.000-05:002008-09-16T06:54:00.000-05:00As usual , everyone has already said all that I wa...As usual , everyone has already said all that I was too speechless to say:)<BR/>Just wanted to let you know you guys are in my prayers as well. <BR/><BR/>Podunk hospitals are the pits!<BR/>A lifetime ago ,we had a step dad who was a doctor. I was only 11 ,but for some reason I remember him saying "if he ever had to go to a hospital, it would be a big city teaching hospital."<BR/><BR/>Amen to that! I hope they are able to make your mother more comfortable now. Pneumonia is painful damnit!<BR/><BR/>Vicki is right about hospice. My mother had it for a long time and so did my friends husband who just died. They reevaluate ,every 6 months. And are wonderful,helpful people.<BR/><BR/> Hugs to all of youSmochahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04604417561056157219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-39225378291281023282008-09-15T19:25:00.000-05:002008-09-15T19:25:00.000-05:00I thought about you all day today. I was hoping i...I thought about you all day today. I was hoping it was going to be a good day for you.<BR/><BR/>I wish I was as strong as you. I am such a big scaredy cat about life. But not you, no. You take life by the balls and say Hey!! I am here and you have to deal with it!<BR/><BR/>I love it.Billyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10753509148757883091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-36476596257037016092008-09-15T18:22:00.000-05:002008-09-15T18:22:00.000-05:00First of all, I am so VERY happy that she does not...First of all, I am so VERY happy that she does not have that insidious disease...this is an answer to many prayers. I am APPALLED that she was treated this way. I remember thinking to myself...they actually kicked her to the curb...gave up on her and sent her home to die figuring she was a lost cause. I thought that maybe she was very old and when I came to the part where you stated she is only 73...then I was REALLY MAD. There just is NO excuse for any of this. I would NEVER let that hospital treat ANYONE (and that includes you) in my family again. When mom gets well and I'm banking on it...you and your family need to seriously think about some sort of action that will assure that no one else goes through such needless mistreatment, not to mention the erroneous diagnosis. This doctor needs to know that you and your family all realize that she just about killed your mother. This is inexcusable and unforgivable. <BR/>Big hugs and love to you and yours Jamie. Thank God it wasn't this horrible dreaded disease and we will pray that the infection she has can be cured and she will, once again be able to enjoy life. Love, CharlotteGolden To Silver Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04585559845728927540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-65159040865312004682008-09-15T18:03:00.000-05:002008-09-15T18:03:00.000-05:00I know that small town hospital feeling...they did...I know that small town hospital feeling...they did mess up...and talking about hospices before it is even necessary! The good news is that it is most likely not cancer...but the letting the pneumonia / infection run your mom down to almost nothing... inexcusable!!! Praying for you and hoping this big hospital can turn things around.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-25949951283009259922008-09-15T17:02:00.000-05:002008-09-15T17:02:00.000-05:00Oh Jamie, I'm so sorry. I would be furious!! How c...Oh Jamie, I'm so sorry. I would be furious!! How could they misdiagnose her and then make her leave?! I know this is not the time, but is there anything you can do about that doctor?<BR/><BR/>My prayers are with you and especially your sweet momma.Moohaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12783775723399171570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-22011261757485441572008-09-15T14:06:00.000-05:002008-09-15T14:06:00.000-05:00Unfortunatly, this kind of thing happens more than...Unfortunatly, this kind of thing happens more than you think. My dad was seriously misdiagnosed (small town doc/hospial) and by time we got him to a bigger hospital it was too late. By the end of that week he was gone. <BR/><BR/>I am so glad your mom is getting the right treatment now. Having so many family memebers around is a huge help even if you guys are all on top of each other. You are all in my prayers.Just Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062762585224798388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-69513190019380994042008-09-15T13:47:00.000-05:002008-09-15T13:47:00.000-05:00Still sending you my hugs and prayers. I'm sorry ...Still sending you my hugs and prayers. I'm sorry you and your mama had to go through all of this. <BR/><BR/>love -<BR/>fiwafiwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04816465372283594972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-35244491579761937472008-09-15T11:46:00.005-05:002008-09-15T11:46:00.005-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Joni Dixon-Stangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903140840552256407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-88465023096889588372008-09-15T11:46:00.004-05:002008-09-15T11:46:00.004-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Joni Dixon-Stangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903140840552256407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-16727999565151397542008-09-15T11:46:00.003-05:002008-09-15T11:46:00.003-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Joni Dixon-Stangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903140840552256407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-7044847214873700772008-09-15T11:46:00.002-05:002008-09-15T11:46:00.002-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Joni Dixon-Stangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903140840552256407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-31314162692653116182008-09-15T11:46:00.001-05:002008-09-15T11:46:00.001-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Joni Dixon-Stangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903140840552256407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-7600628690824686452008-09-15T11:46:00.000-05:002008-09-15T11:46:00.000-05:00I have stumbled onto your site via another site an...I have stumbled onto your site via another site and cried at your post (aside from the fact that I have been hosting my own pity party), my mom was diagnosised wrong and when she was finally diagnosised correctly she had advanced lung cancer. I understand your pain in looking at your mom in a hospital bed and realizing that she seems so small and hopeless. I'm so glad that you made her her favorite cake. I snuck my Mom jelly filled donuts because that was one of the last pleasures that she craved and could enjoy. I will be watching and praying for you as you go through this.Joni Dixon-Stangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10903140840552256407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-9491237238688467782008-09-15T10:59:00.000-05:002008-09-15T10:59:00.000-05:00jamie, i am so so very sorry about yur mom..iand i...jamie, i am so so very sorry about yur mom..iand i am very mad at the dr.i can't believe they had such a wrong diagnonsisfor that many days....grrrrrrrrr, hope in the bigger hospital things will get better for her quiker...take care and i'll say my prayers for you and your family.....desert dirt divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04911578434974184759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-44354951717488703272008-09-15T10:33:00.000-05:002008-09-15T10:33:00.000-05:00I wish I had words to express how my heart hurts f...I wish I had words to express how my heart hurts for you and your mother. The medical community can be either a blessing or a curse. I'm sorry your mother experienced the latter.<BR/><BR/>I'm sure you will address the mis-diagnois with the proper folks when the crisis calms. <BR/><BR/>It is wonderful that you have family with you and that you don't have to make the long drive. <BR/><BR/>Again, Jamie, I don't have words to express how I feel for you and yours other than "I'm so sorry." Those words are so inadequate. I send a warm hug to you full of love and understanding.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10888354907204896695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-10134158302749964902008-09-15T08:05:00.000-05:002008-09-15T08:05:00.000-05:00Oh Jamie, I don't even know what to say. What a m...Oh Jamie, I don't even know what to say. What a mess. I am so sorry you all have been through so much. I really hope your mom will get the medical treatment she deserves now. (((Hugs)))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-89019088745550271262008-09-15T07:44:00.000-05:002008-09-15T07:44:00.000-05:00Jamie, I lurk and seldom comment unless I have som...Jamie, I lurk and seldom comment unless I have something I know will be benefit. There are several reasons I lurk---first it is very difficult for me to type as I have Secondary progressive multiple sclerosis and have never found a voice recognition program that works for me.<BR/><BR/>I wanted to comment on this post because I have been where you are with your mother---and know the frustrations you are experiencing in the care she has received. Also something many people are not aware of is that hospice care is available for people such as your mother. It no longer means she will die in six months. Hospice has found people are living longer and longer lives and they have reevaluated their criteria. I know this because almost two years in the hospital and her physician suggested hospice and I freaked out. She had suffered a small stroke a was a diabetic. She went to a Skilled Nursing Home for Rehab and her room mate there was a Hospice patient and has been one for over three years.<BR/><BR/>You might want to check this out because trust me they are very helpful. <BR/><BR/>BTW I saw you at Gypsy's.Vickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04288211825926082277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-53379435236820269932008-09-15T07:43:00.000-05:002008-09-15T07:43:00.000-05:00I read this with tears in my eyes. I'm SO, SO sorr...I read this with tears in my eyes. I'm SO, SO sorry for this incredible mess and the pain and suffering your mom had to go through and your whole family. So unfair! So incompetent. <BR/><BR/>Thank goodness you're all together now. You can be there now. Everything else can and will wait. I'm with you in spirit, Jamie.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09605292489556502765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-28997649529588858692008-09-15T07:32:00.000-05:002008-09-15T07:32:00.000-05:00This is such a good news/bad news post that I hard...This is such a good news/bad news post that I hardly know where to start. I am so pleased that your mum's diagnosis is not as dire as first thought and I hope and pray that now at least she will get on the right medication to at least make her more comfortable. The poor love...she has really been through the wringer hasn't she and all of you along with her.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Poor crazy dog will probably really lose it with all those people there but I think it will do all the humans the world of good.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Stay strong Jamie, big hugs.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339140046788925506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-41601134582044954952008-09-15T07:07:00.000-05:002008-09-15T07:07:00.000-05:00wow Jaime; that is some messed up medical care and...wow Jaime; that is some messed up medical care and I'm not a bit surprised. I would have a few words with the doctor that diagnosed her. So are we saying/hoping cancer free then? But still with serious lung issues? Just want to make the prayers that much more specific. Glad all the family is surrounding her and you!Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07687207048265961972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-76943834671014073392008-09-15T06:34:00.000-05:002008-09-15T06:34:00.000-05:00I just wanted to tell you how outraged I am due to...I just wanted to tell you how outraged I am due to the incompetency of that other hospital. I do hope that when the time is right you will discuss "legal action" because they did nothing to keep their patient comfortable..your mom who is already so ill was made to feel worse physically--that is just wrong.<BR/><BR/>I pray that something good will happen..and that you all have more time with your mom. <BR/>Cheesecakes do work miracles--if you hadn't made her one, you might not have been there in time to help her when she had problems breathing.<BR/><BR/>I'm very sorry for your family. How is her husband doing? Is he up with you guys as well, or nearby?<BR/><BR/>just awful and painful, absolutely painful.CRUSTY MOM-Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16147045282174189951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-75856573497113831902008-09-15T05:58:00.000-05:002008-09-15T05:58:00.000-05:00talk about some mixed frickin emotions. dang girl ...talk about some mixed frickin emotions. dang girl you've run the gambit here haven't ya? and you still aren't done it seems.<BR/>it does look like there may be some hope here tho that wasn't, so much only a few days ago though.<BR/><BR/>i do know how tough it is runnin and hour or two back and forth to the hospital everyday... but somehow it is worth it. it's the right thing to do. for you and for her.<BR/><BR/>happy to hear that your wall to wall family- i know it's added stress.. but it is also good for you-- maybe not at the moment-- but you'll realize that you have found laughter where there was none. and comfort when you had none.<BR/>ya know?<BR/><BR/>i think at my dads place when he was sick, at one point, there had to have been somewhere between ten and twenty people stayin there-- he had a four bedroom house-- but it was still a madhouse-- and the many were strangers to each other. so it was very odd. at least if you get pissed , you can slap the crap out of your sis, and she'll still respect you in the morning. :))<BR/><BR/>i didnt have that option. cuz i hardly knew most of the people i was with. <BR/><BR/>anyhow--<BR/>i really hate to hear your mom is sick.. but at the same time-- i am prying that it really is NOT cancer, and that they can fight this infection and get her well, and back on her feet in no time.<BR/>(wishful thinking?-- it's possible. )<BR/><BR/>love ya pal. i'm thinkin of you and yours a lot out here.. just busy and not around much.<BR/><BR/>hope your day is good to you.<BR/><BR/>oxSOULhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14096155256030485739noreply@blogger.com