tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post1047389217777528765..comments2024-02-15T04:21:30.013-06:00Comments on Everyone thinks I can fix it: 1983Jamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18085622205448586156noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-73182126735940669212007-06-11T10:09:00.000-05:002007-06-11T10:09:00.000-05:00Sigh. Thank you for writing this Jamie. I'm still ...Sigh. Thank you for writing this Jamie. I'm still in the middle of this crap, so it's hard to me to write about it. It's good to know that others have survived the same thing.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03293649194823360181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-77096429766095069022007-06-10T15:57:00.000-05:002007-06-10T15:57:00.000-05:00wow. What heartbreak.I too, was involved with a m...wow. What heartbreak.<BR/><BR/>I too, was involved with a man who cheated on me. Of course, we were very young, just 19, but still, I was faithful to him!! And I can remember to this day, how it felt to know that he was with another woman. Not good. And yes, I went back to him, over and over again. stupid. But I do have my beautiful daughters from him so it all evens out, I guess.<BR/><BR/>It's nice to know that the older you get, the smarter you get....at least some of us do.<BR/><BR/>great post.Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06245554563405436101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-51905816307754212532007-06-10T12:12:00.000-05:002007-06-10T12:12:00.000-05:00Yeah, it´s a great post. It´s sad if u won´t trust...Yeah, it´s a great post. It´s sad if u won´t trust anyone again. I just feel I don´t know if I´ll ever trust a man again. Life´s a bitch. All u can do is try do the best of it.Evalinnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02978531437469203748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34674870.post-61592893791864228132007-06-10T09:45:00.000-05:002007-06-10T09:45:00.000-05:00This was a really good post, Jamie - coming straig...This was a really good post, Jamie - coming straight from the heart. What a horrible experience to go thru so young. I wish it was less common. My ex walked in on his first wife in bed with his best friend, he never saw that one coming either. I don't know what it is about people with the sneaking around thing. If it's over, for god sakes have the decency to say it's over. Sadly, I can even understand why you took him back, one because of your kid, and two because it's obvious you loved him. If you had some good years in between, and a couple awesome kids, maybe that makes it worth it. I know what you mean about trust though, once that bit of innocence about love and marriage is broken, and you realize what the people closest to you in life are capable of doing, it does pretty much destroy your trust for good. I trust no men now, even the few I think are good guys. I thought my husband's were good guys too. Turns out they weren't. Maybe it's more that I don't trust myself to be a good judge of character. <BR/><BR/>But we do have our kids, and our lives now Jamie, so even if life didn't turn out "happily ever after", we have some reasons to be thankful. Somehow we survived. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Thank you for sharing your story.josie2shoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15452791371126155173noreply@blogger.com